Evelyn Gertrude WRAY

Female 1913 - 1997  (84 years)


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  1. 1.  Evelyn Gertrude WRAY was born on 15 May 1913 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina (daughter of Clyde Mack WRAY and Parry Esther JOYCE); died on 5 Nov 1997 in Camden, Kershaw County, South Carolina; was buried on 8 Nov 1997 in Camden, Kershaw County, South Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Cause of Death: Heart Attack
    • Reference Number: 13

    Notes:

    !Marshall 0018; Marshall 0041 - Delayed Birth Certificate
    !She died in the Kearsh Wind nursing home which is part of the Kershaw county Memorial Hospital. Mother had had a masive heart attack seven years earlier in 1990 and was in the nursing home at the time of her death. She had her early morning (2:00 AM) snack in the nursing home and seemed fine. A few minutes after 3:00 AM she called the nursing station and said "I think I'm dying." They called the doctor from the emergency room and by the time he reached her room she was slipping away. She did not suffer, she just went to sleep. She is buried with her husband, Sam, in the Quaker Cemetery, Camden, SC (David W. Marshall, Sr. May 15, 1997.)

    Find-A-Grave Memorial #114311407

    Unnumbered Documents - Marshall, Evelyn - Reflections

    The full text of her reflections is shown below. Her daughter, Deanna, worked with her to get this information while she was in the nursing home. She was completely lucid and her mind was clear, so the information below should be accurate.
    __________________________________

    Mother tired easily and grew weary of my questions at times. I had to wait until she was in the right frame of mind and felt well enough to deal with these questions that often brought back a flood of memories to her. Therefore, the interviews extended over a long period of time. I tried to use her words insofar as I could, so I put her responses in quotation marks. I was not able to cover all the questions, but covered most of them. In any event, there may be some surprises for all of you. I know there were for me. (Deanna Brewer)

    1. Your Grandparents

    a. Where are they from?

    Maternal Grandparents: "I don't know. Mother's mother was an old Ironside
    Baptist preacher."
    Paternal Grandparents: "South Carolina. Originally from Holland and
    Ireland. Dad's mother was Dutch and had the blackest
    eyes you ever saw."

    b. Did your grandparents ever tell you stories about when they were little?

    "No."

    c. Are you like any of your grandparents in any way?

    "Don't know, except I like to have fun like Daddy's daddy. I would ride on his
    shoulders through the park every day after work. We lived in front of the park in
    Richmond, Virginia. I waited on the curb everyday for him and Uncle Russell. I
    loved them. This was when I was between six and nine years old."

    d. Do you have a favorite grandparent memory?

    "I liked to get on the train and go to the beach (Buckroe Beach) twice a year.

    Granddad was a good cook. He cooked in the army in the Spanish-American war.
    He could cook anything. Grandmother was a good cook, too. She cooked on a gas
    stove and sometimes sold what she cooked--meats, vegetables and bread--everything.
    Just a sideline. Granddad worked in the paper mill. They had nine children. When
    she had the last one she said, She took care of the rest and he could take care of that
    one.' Every time he came home, she got pregnant."

    2. Your Parents

    a. Do you know any stories about when they were young?

    "No."

    b. Do you know how they met each other?

    "They grew up together. They went with friends who were getting married and Dad
    said to Mom, Why don't we get married?' And they did. She was fourteen and he
    was eighteen."

    c. How many wedding anniversaries did they celebrate together?

    "Over 50."

    d. Can you tell me something special you remember about each of your parents?

    "Mother was very loving and tried hard to raise her children.

    Daddy loved music and loved to sing. Runs in the family."

    e. Who do you resemble most?

    "Physically--look like Mother."

    3. When you were young.

    a. What were you like then?

    "A tomboy. I drove my mother crazy. Loved school. Sang in the church choir. Very
    active in church--Baptist Church."

    b. What is your earliest memory?

    "Just before we got on the train to go to Richmond from Mt. Airy. I had a brand new
    pair a black patent leather shoes. I thought they were the prettiest thing I had every
    seen. I was four or five years old."

    c. Did you have a favorite toy?

    "I had a doll baby I loved for years and when I was a teenager the house caught on
    fire and it burned. I cried for days. We almost lost everything, but my mother carried
    water and had the fire just about put out before the fire department got there."

    d. Do you remember an outfit you really loved?

    "After I went to work, all the girls had navy blue suits with red cherries and I just had
    to have one, but somebody stole my money out of my locker and I never got it."

    e. What was the very best present you received?

    "My grandchildren.

    Materially, a gold locket and chain from Mother and Dad in my early teens."

    f. What was the most memorable gift you ever gave?

    "My children to Sam."

    g. Do you remember when you got your first skates or bicycle? How did you learn to
    get around on your new "wheels"?

    "First skates--I remember them very well. I wanted them so bad. I skated all over
    the place. I skated down a hill and one of the wheels came off and I fell in a
    neighbor's yard and hurt my arm. But I never told my mother because I knew she
    would not let me skate anymore. We had a lot of fun. There was a special street they
    marked off where everyone skated. I lived in front of a big park that had a big
    swimming pool. They drained it three times a day and filled it and we would all go
    hop in.

    I learned to skate by falling-and-getting-up-and-falling-again method."

    h. Tell us about the other children in your family and how you got along with them.

    "My younger brother, Graham, was born sick; he had bad kidney trouble but he got
    along all right. We played together. He was always sick.

    I had a younger sister, Vernell, who died when she was two years old. I cried my
    heart out when she died. She had a bad cold that went into pneumonia.

    My sister, Pauline, was always fine and healthy. I put her and Vernell in the carriage
    at the same time and pushed them around. I married when she was still real young.
    Graham was still a teenager.

    My youngest brother, Clyde, Jr., was only two when I got married."

    i. What did your family like to do together?

    "Eat. Young ones liked to swim together. Dad took us to James River and we would
    swim. Our neighbor had a boat and we would ride it in James River. We went to the
    Baptist Church together. Not much to do, to tell you the truth."

    j. Do you remember a favorite family recipe?

    "Mamma's baked chicken and dressing. It was gooood, now you hear me!"

    k. Did you ever get into trouble for doing something you weren't supposed to do? What
    was it? How old were you?

    "All the time. I would go upstairs, climb out the window, go to the roof and jump
    down to the ground. I was six to twelve years old. I got spanked once a day,
    everyday. It was so much fun...

    I was not supposed to sneak out and go swimming when Mamma was asleep, but I
    did. What was worse, I took my little brother with me. I was six to twelve. I was
    always getting in trouble."

    l. What was one of your greatest adventures when you were small?

    "I used to go over to a big park in Richmond--can't remember the name--that had a
    great big swimming pool. Not the one across from the house--another one. I played
    baseball, jack rocks and anything else we could find to do. Then go swim and go
    home."

    m. What was one of the funniest things that ever happened to you when you were
    young?

    "Can't remember."

    n. What were your dreams for the future when you were a teenager?

    "Dreamed of finishing Spanish and going to Spain."

    o. Did you have a "crush" on anyone in high school? What did you think about that
    person?

    "No. I had a friend but didn't have a crush on him. His name was Thurmond Creel.
    I went to the library and got books for him. He was good looking. I corresponded
    with him when we moved to Mt. Airy, but my mother made me stop because she
    thought I was getting serious--and she may have been right. He was an avid reader.
    I have often wondered what happened to him."

    p. Who were your best friends when you were growing up? What did you do together?

    "Doris Sharpe and Ellen Nunnally. Played jack rocks, hide and seek, chased little
    boys around, made fudge candy and sold it to men in Chevrolet place right down the
    street, went swimming in little swimming pool across the street, went to Swan Lake
    to go swimming, played on top of buildings--one place we lived (in) had very little
    yard--, climbed out of Grandmother's apartment and climbed out the window and
    walked across roof tops of stores until we got to a real big top and played there."

    q. Did you have a part-time job?

    "Made candy and sold it to Chevrolet place right down the street and bought mother
    her first electric iron -- and I was so proud of it!"

    r. Where did you spend holidays and vacations?

    "In the front yard and back yard at home and across the street in the park and
    swimming pool."

    s. What kinds of entertainment did you enjoy?

    "Dancing, playing baseball -- any position -- football and singing."

    t. How old were you when you learned to drive a car?

    "Fourteen years old."

    u. What kind of car was it?

    "Plymouth - a taxi cab."

    v. Who taught you?

    "My boy friend -- Arthur York."

    w. What was the first car you owned?

    "Plymouth, I guess. My husband's brother who was in the car business gave us one --
    Uncle Penn."

    x. Do you remember how much it cost?

    "No. It was free."

    y. What were some "fads" you can remember during your teen years?

    "Marcel waves with a hot iron. Burn you hair up every week."

    z. Where did you move to when you left your family's home? How old were you?

    "When I was married I moved into my husband's family home in Mt. Airy, North
    Carolina, on Pine Street right next door to the post office--the Marshall Home. I was
    18 years old."

    aa. Where was your first full-time job?

    "The telephone company. I did not weigh enough so my mother sewed weights
    (lead) into my clothes so I could weigh up."

    ab. What did you do?

    "I was an operator in Richmond, Virginia."

    ac. Where else did you work?

    "When we moved to Mt. Airy, North Carolina, I worked at J. C. Penny Co. for Mr.
    and Mrs. Hill. I also worked for the telephone company and in a dime store."

    4. School Life

    a. Where did you go to school?

    "First through fourth grade in Richmond, Virginia;
    Fifth through sixth grad in Powhatan School;
    Seventh through tenth grades in Richmond."

    b. Did you like school?

    "I loved school. I cried and cried when I had to quit."

    c. What was your favorite subject?

    "Spanish, music and drama."

    d. What school activity did you enjoy?

    "Physical education"

    5. Your Married Life

    a. How did you meet?

    "My future husband saw me on the street corner--I was told he admired my legs. He
    told me later he said to a friend with him, "That woman has the prettiest legs I ever
    saw," and told his fried he wanted an introduction, but I knew he was dating my best
    friend at that time and I refused an introduction. A year later when my friend moved,
    I told Sam's friend I was ready to meet him and we were introduced."

    b. How old were you?

    "18 years old."

    c. What were you doing at the time?

    "Working in the telephone office."

    d. When did you first know you wanted to marry?

    "I don't remember."

    e. Were you engaged? How long?

    "Yes, just a short while."

    f. What was your wedding like? Did you go someplace special on a honeymoon?

    "We eloped -- were married in Hillsville, Virginia, by a Methodist preacher. I don't
    think he was a very religious preacher because after the ceremony he remarked,
    "Well, she is all yours. You can kiss her and not look to see if anyone is watching."
    Our friends, Ellis and Lib Sanders went with us. We spent our honeymoon in a motel
    in Hillsville."

    g. What surprised you most about your new spouse after you were married?

    "Nothing."

    h. Where was your fist home after you married?

    "In my husband's mamas's house."

    i. What were your first years together like?

    "Nice. He liked to travel and I went with him."

    j. How many children did you want?

    "Twelve."

    k. What did you think the day each of your children were born?

    "Sam, Jr. -- There was just nothing else like him! No one could take him away from
    us--but it wasn't long before anybody could have him, he cried so much.

    Donald -- Slept all the time -- slept so much it worried us.

    Deanna -- Sweetest little girl in the whole world.

    David -- Precious.

    Johnny -- World's best. But I didn't know how I was going to take care of him I had
    so many children."

    l. How did you choose your children's names?

    Sam, Jr. - after his father

    Donald Wray - after the doctor who delivered him and my maiden name (Wray).

    Evelyn Deanna - I had just gone to one of Deanna Durben's movies right before
    Deanna was born, and said I would name my little girl Deanna because I wanted a
    little girl who could sing like Deanna Durben. Her father insisted I name her after
    me, so Evelyn is her first name.

    David William - just liked the name. (According to my brother, Sam, he gave me that name. He had a Jewish friend named David that he liked and mother agreed. - David W. Marshall - 10/2/2013)

    John Randolph - after John Randolph Marshall, first chief justice of the Supreme
    Court." (At that time the family claimed we were direct descendants - which may or
    may not be true.) (Not true. See my website at Marshallgenealogy.org - David W. Marshall; son of evelyn.)

    m. Did any of your children remind you of anyone else in your family?

    "Deanna - Aunt Mamie - teacher look."

    n. What were your children like when they were young?

    "Little hellions.

    Sam - a monkey - climbed trees, swung on branches.

    Donald - slept all the time.

    Deanna - sweetest little girl in whole world - but we were always losing her.

    David - smart, serious.

    Johnny - different - walked to a different drummer."

    o. What were some of the mischievous things your children did?

    "Sam jumped out of the barn when the hay was moved.

    Sam came up to the shed and said, "Mamma, Daddy wants some "pertiznizer."

    Donald - slipped around and smoked - got sick and had to call doctor - he was sick
    on cigarettes so the doctor pulled a pack out of his pocket and said, "Here, Donald,
    have one."

    Deanna - always serious - never did anything bad - semi-bad.

    David - never did anything bad.

    Johnny - Stuff on stick."

    p. What things about your children that made you especially proud?

    "That they were mine."

    q. What things did you all like to do together as a family?

    "Eat, go on picnics, go up on the mountain, go in car for rides at night."

    r. What made your family special?

    "They were my family -- what more do you need."

    s. As teenagers what did your children do that worried you the most?

    "Sam, Jr., - got drunk.

    Donald - wrecked brand new Chrysler

    Deanna - perfect child

    David - never worried

    Johnny - Oh, Lord! Don't ask me! I tell you one thing. He made life interesting."

    6. Important Places

    a. What countries did your families originally come from?

    "Ireland - Grand daddy Wray's family.
    France and Holland - Grandmother Wray's family."

    b. Do you know why and when they moved here?

    "Don't know."

    c. Did they bring any traditions with them?

    "Don't know."

    d. Where and when were you born?

    "Mt. Airy, North Carolina, May 15, 1913."

    e. Where did you live when you were growing up?

    "Richmond, Virginia"

    f. Tell me about the family home you remember most.

    "Mother was such a good cook."

    g. What was your room like? Did you share it?

    "Little room under the eaves of the house.
    Yes, with brother, Graham."

    h. Did you have a special place you liked to go when you were a child?

    "To Granny Wray's. She always had something good cooked up -- right across from
    grammar school."

    i. Was there any place that was scary?

    "No."

    j. Where was your first home after you married. What was it like?

    "We lived in the house with my in-laws. There were thirteen room on three stories.
    It was called the Marshall House and was right next door from the post office. I
    remember that we used to get mad because there were lots of scraps of papers from
    the post office. We called the postmaster and the mayor and they put up an extremely
    small trash can."

    k. Did you raise your family there?

    "No."

    l. Tell me about the places you visited?

    Williamsburg, Virginia, Old Soldiers Home in Virginia -- gave one a banana and he
    stuck the whole thing in his mouth -- peeling and all. Also liked to go to Buchoe
    Beach, Virginia."

    m. If you could go some place you haven't been, where would it be and why?

    "Canada and Alaska -- always wanted to go--all my life."

    n. Where is your favorite place of all and why?

    "Old Town, North Carolina--where the first Presbyterian Church was built."


    7. Miscellaneous

    a. What was going on in the world when you were born?

    "World War I. My father was getting ready to go and then it was all over."

    b. When you were a child or teenager what world events were taking place?

    "The World's Fair."

    c. Was there a time you remember being especially fun or significant?

    "My little sister died from complication of diseases. She was so pretty. I took care
    of her."

    d. What were the major news stories when you were starting a family of your own?

    "The depression, the Lindberg kidnaping, WW II."

    e. What political figure do you remember most and why?

    "Franklin D. Roosevelt, because he was president and his wife was prominent.
    President Hoover was raised by my husband's aunts."

    f. Can you remember a time or event that changed your life:

    "Going to Richmond, Virginia, when I was four years old. I had my first pair of
    black patten leather shoes. I was going to Richmond, Virginia on the train."

    g. How has life changed since your grandparents time?

    "There were street cars run by electricity. People had horse and buggies in some
    places. We stayed at home and cooked. There were street bazaars and Grandmother
    did the most fabulous cooking you ever saw, and people bragged on it. She was
    Dutch."

    h. What do you hope the future will bring for your grandchildren; great grandchildren?

    "A peaceful world free from war and fighting."


    i. What was your all-time favorite book?

    "Little Miss Penrod -- all Booth Tarkington's books."

    Evelyn married Samuel Wesley MARSHALL, Sr. on 15 Nov 1931 in Hillsville, Carroll County, Virginia. Samuel (son of Samuel Edward MARSHALL and Martha Ellen BADGETT) was born on 11 Mar 1903 in White Plains, Surry County, North Carolina; died on 15 Feb 1991 in Ridgeway, Fairfield County, South Carolina; was buried on 18 Feb 1991 in Camden, Kershaw County, South Carolina. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

    Children:
    1. Samuel Wesley MARSHALL, Jr.
    2. Donald Wray MARSHALL was born on 11 May 1936 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; died in 3/18/2024 in Lake Worth, Palm Beach County, Florida; was buried on 5 Apr 2024 in Columbia, Richland County, South Carolina.
    3. Evelyn Deanna MARSHALL
    4. David William MARSHALL, Sr.
    5. John Randolph MARSHALL

Generation: 2

  1. 2.  Clyde Mack WRAY was born on 29 Sep 1892 in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina (son of Robert Marion Monroe WRAY and Nancy Stillette BYARS); died on 29 Aug 1974 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 26

    Notes:

    From: Wray, Michael V. (VDOT) [mailto:Michael.Wray@VDOT.Virginia.gov]
    Sent: Friday, April 06, 2012 7:16 AM
    To: David@marshallgenealogy.org
    Subject: Robert Marion Monroe Wray

    David,

    I spoke with my Aunt Gayle Wray Orange last week. She confirmed that the picture was in mid fifties, probably after Luther's funeral. She confirmed the order was Clyde, Earl, Russell, Ralph, Howard and Victor. She said Uncle Luther had a stroke in the 40's and passed in 1955.
    I am attaching a scanned copy of a enlarged photo that was hanging over my grandfathers (Ralph) mantle of his father, Robert Marion Monroe Wray, during the Spanish American War. My Aunt Gayle has a copy of his discharge papers. I think Myrtle had the original. I have the large version of the photo attached now hanging in my living room. I didn't see it on your page so I thought you might like to have it. I will also get with Gayle as soon as I can to get scanned copy of Victor in the military uniform photo. I'll send more photos as I can get them scanned. I'll keep in touch.


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    Wray 0002; Wray 0008 - Also I have visited his grave in Midkiff Cemetary, Mount Airy, North Carolina and have personal knowledge about him since he is my grandfather.

    Find-A-Grave Memorial # 92724148

    Charles Crabtree gave me the information about their marriage. My mother didn't remember that.

    Clyde married Parry Esther JOYCE on 1 Jul 1911 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina. Parry (daughter of Samuel J. JOYCE and Emma HOOKER) was born on 7 Oct 1896 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 22 Feb 1987 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 3.  Parry Esther JOYCE was born on 7 Oct 1896 in Surry County, North Carolina (daughter of Samuel J. JOYCE and Emma HOOKER); died on 22 Feb 1987 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 27

    Notes:

    Wray 0008 - I have a letter in her hand writing that gives her husband's birth and death dates, also her birth date. She is buried in Midkiff Cemetery (Find-A-Grave Memorial # 96276340)in Mount Airy. I was a Pallbearer for this funeral.
    It was the day after a very bad snow storm so that they could not actually take her to the cemetery until at least later in the afternoon or even on a later date. The weather had cleared that day so I drove to Mount Airy from Columbia, S.C. to attend the funeral. The weather threatened to turn bad again the next day so I drove home right after the service in the funeral home.

    Parry worked in a textile mill in Mt. Airy.

    Children:
    1. 1. Evelyn Gertrude WRAY was born on 15 May 1913 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; died on 5 Nov 1997 in Camden, Kershaw County, South Carolina; was buried on 8 Nov 1997 in Camden, Kershaw County, South Carolina.
    2. Robert Graham WRAY, Sr. was born on 6 Jun 1916 in White Plains, Surry County, North Carolina; died on 2 Jun 2002 in Winston Salem, Forsyth County, North Carolina; was buried on 5 Jun 2002 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    3. Myrtle Vernell WRAY was born on 28 May 1921 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia; died on 26 Nov 1924 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Nov 1924 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    4. Joyce Pauline WRAY was born on 4 Aug 1923 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia; died on 17 May 2018 in Virginia Beach, Virginia; was buried on 21 May 2018 in Narrows, Giles County, Virginia.
    5. Clyde Mack WRAY, Jr. was born on 30 Sep 1931 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; died on 29 Mar 2022 in Jacksonville, Duval County, Florida; was cremated in Mt. Airy, Surry County,North Carolina.


Generation: 3

  1. 4.  Robert Marion Monroe WRAY was born on 4 Aug 1869 in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina (son of Francis Marion WRAY and Jane BELL); died on 25 Mar 1925 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia; was buried in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 52

    Notes:

    From: Wray, Michael V. (VDOT) [mailto:Michael.Wray@VDOT.Virginia.gov]
    Sent: Friday, March 30, 2012 3:45 PM
    To: David Marshall
    Subject: RE: Picture - Nancy Byars Wray and Children

    David -

    I forgot to mention. I will send the photos to you once I talk to Aunt Gayle, who is still living. Ill see what I have too. She has a picture of Victor in his dress military uniform. Victor and Howard were both born in Richmond. They never lived in Mt Airy. The family moved here after Ralph, my grandfather, was born. Great Grandfather Robert Marion Monroe Wray was buried at Riverview Cemetery originally but was moved to south Richmond, Maury Cemetery later. My grandfather Ralph had him moved. I have a picture of Ralph at the graveside of hs father in 1925 at Riverview. He was 15. My dad and the others that lived here are there too.The bulk of them lived in south Richmond and their descendants still do. I am the odd ball. :)

    Hope to hear back soon and will get those photos to you as soon as possible.

    Mike



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    File Name: "Wray, Robert - Military Records" - This file is located in the "Wray" sub folder in the "Sources" folder. They are copies of his company muster rolls that trace his service from enlistment until discharge. It includes letters between him and Nancy and letters to his officers. Robert did not actually serve in Cuba. He was in Savannah waiting shipment when the war ended.
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    File Name: Wray 0001; Wray 0003 - Date and place of death are certified, birth location is speculative.
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    http://familytreemaker.genealogy.com/users/w/r/a/Gene-R-Wray/WEBSITE-0001/

    Ralph George Wray (son of Robert Marion Monroe Wray and Nancy Stillette Byars) was born January 6, 1910 in Mount Airy, North Carolina, and died January 3, 1993 in Richmond, Virginia. He married Margaret Louise Dent on April 20, 1935 in Washington, D.C., daughter of Walter Oliver Dent, Sr. and Gracie Lee Hague .
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    From: blwray@rjsonline.net - Linda Wray
    Date: Thursday, March 11, 2004 9:31 PM
    To: Charles Crabtree ; David Marshall ; Gene Wray
    Subjecy: Robert Marion Wray

    Hi,
    In looking over some of my information, I think I know who is the father of Robert Marion Wray. I believe it is Francis Marion Wray, who was a son of Amos Wray. He died June 22, 1877, and Robert Marion is listed on the 1880 census under Robert Eli Wray. Francis Marion Wray was married to Jane, who was born about 1847. They had 2 children- Ann born about 1866 and Marion born about 1869. Francis Marion Wray was a Private B in Campbell's Rifles in the twelveth SCV in the War of Northern Aggression, or more commonly known as the War Between the States. This information came from the Hart Collection at McCelvey Center in York and the Confederate State Roster SC Name Roster Volume 1. I am still looking for other information and it is possible that I am wrong. There may be more children, but I will keep trying to find more information.
    Linda

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    An image of Robert M. Wray's death certificate was attached to the message below. It is stored in the "Unnumbered Documents" folder and is named "Wray, Robert Marion - Death Certificate."
    From: Charles Crabtree
    To: Henry Eugene Wray ; Linda Wray
    Sent: Saturday, May 08, 2004 9:31 AM
    Subject: Death Cert. Robert Marion Wray
    Gene


    Linda,
    Attached is a copy of the Death Certificate for my Great Grandfather Robert Marion Wray. It was in the mail when we returned home from our last trip.
    As I read it:
    Robert was born August 4, 1869 in South Caroline. His wife is listed as Nancy S. Byars born South Carolina. His father is listed as Marion Wray and his mom as ___ Bell, both born in South Carolina.

    The informant's name appears to be C. M. Wray. If so this would be my Grandfather. Clyde was living in Richmond at the time. My mom who was born in Richmond would have been about 2 years old and says she does not remember Robert but she knows that the Clyde Mack family lived about 1/2 block from Robert and Nancy. The cert. list the address for Robert as 1111 Hull. I know that (Hull) is hard to read but after talking to mom she is sure that Robert and Nancy lived on Hull Street in a Flat. She believes that Robert and Nancy lived over Tony's restaurant and says that Nancy use to make pies for that restaurant.
    Robert did die at work according to my mom so it would appear that Robert worked as a Mill Wright for the Standard Paper Mill in Richmond, VA.

    Robert is shown to be buried in Riverview. I assume that Riverview is the name of the cemetery.
    Surprisingly, my mom did not realize until today that she and her Grandfather Robert share the same birthday, August 4.

    So now we know that Marion Wray was the father of Robert and Robert's mother was a Bell. I have her listed as Jane Bell but do not know who came up with the name Jane. I'll bet that Robert's father was Frances Marion Wray.
    If you cannot read this death cert. let me know and I will copy it and mail a copy to you.
    Charles Crabtree

    Robert married Nancy Stillette BYARS. Nancy (daughter of Malcom Camp (Mack) BYARS and Unicy) was born in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina; died on 18 Aug 1959 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia; was buried in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 5.  Nancy Stillette BYARS was born in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina (daughter of Malcom Camp (Mack) BYARS and Unicy); died on 18 Aug 1959 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia; was buried in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 53

    Notes:

    !Wray 0001; Wray 0003 - Place of birth is speculative. Death information is
    certified.
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    http://familytreemaker.genealogy.com/users/w/r/a/Gene-R-Wray/WEBSITE-0001/

    Ralph George Wray (son of Robert Marion Monroe Wray and Nancy Stillette Byars) was born January 6, 1910 in Mount Airy, North Carolina, and died January 3, 1993 in Richmond, Virginia. He married Margaret Louise Dent on April 20, 1935 in Washington, D.C., daughter of Walter Oliver Dent, Sr. and Gracie Lee Hague .

    Notes:

    David -

    I forgot to mention. I will send the photos to you once I talk to Aunt Gayle, who is still living. Ill see what I have too. She has a picture of Victor in his dress military uniform. Victor and Howard were both born in Richmond. They never lived in Mt Airy. The family moved here after Ralph, my grandfather, was born. Great Grandfather Robert Marion Monroe Wray was buried at Riverview Cemetery originally but was moved to south Richmond, Maury Cemetery later. My grandfather Ralph had him moved. I have a picture of Ralph at the graveside of hs father in 1925 at Riverview. He was 15. My dad and the others that lived here are there too.The bulk of them lived in south Richmond and their descendants still do. I am the odd ball. :)

    Hope to hear back soon and will get those photos to you as soon as possible.

    Mike

    Children:
    1. 2. Clyde Mack WRAY was born on 29 Sep 1892 in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina; died on 29 Aug 1974 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    2. Earl Dean WRAY was born on 27 Nov 1895 in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina; died on 3 Feb 1966 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    3. Russell C. WRAY was born on 10 Jul 1898 in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina; was buried on 5 May 1978 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia.
    4. Luther L. WRAY was born on 23 Nov 1900 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried on 19 May 1955 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia.
    5. Robert B. WRAY was born on 31 May 1903; died on 17 Oct 1904.
    6. Myrtle I. WRAY
    7. Hazel Aileen WRAY was born on 21 Mar 1908 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; died on 29 Nov 1986.
    8. Ralph George WRAY was born on 6 Jan 1910 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; died on 3 Jan 1993 in Richmond,Henrico County, Virginia.
    9. Howard Monroe WRAY was born on 2 Dec 1913 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia; died on 12 Aug 1979; was buried in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia.
    10. Victor Carlin WRAY was born on 16 Apr 1916 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; died on 23 Mar 1985.

  3. 6.  Samuel J. JOYCE was born on 30 Aug 1865 in Stokes County, North Carolina (son of William Snider JOYCE and Ruth Jane SLATE); died on 6 Jul 1927 in Morganton, Burke County, North Carolina; was buried in Flat Rock, Surry County, North Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 54

    Notes:

    Wray 0007 - Buried in the Korner's Grove Primitive Baptist Church Cemetery,McBride Rd., Mount Airy (Flat Rock), North Carolina. His wife, Emma is also buried there.




    I had partial information about Sam Joyce, but on 5/16/2018 I found additional information about his birth, marriage, and death on the LDS Family Search website. His Copy ID on the LDS site is LKQ1-VMG. - DWM - 5/16/2018.

    Find-A-Grave Memorial #39560354






    Samuel married Emma HOOKER on 28 Oct 1883 in Quaker Gap, Stokes County, North Carolina. Emma (daughter of Samuel HOOKER and Fanny NEWMAN) was born on 21 Mar 1868 in Patrick County, Virginia; died on 16 Aug 1931 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  4. 7.  Emma HOOKER was born on 21 Mar 1868 in Patrick County, Virginia (daughter of Samuel HOOKER and Fanny NEWMAN); died on 16 Aug 1931 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 55

    Notes:

    Wray 0007 - Buried in Korner's Grove Primitive Baptist Church Cemetery.

    Until 5/16/2018 I had limited information about her in my database. I got that from her daughter (my grandmother) Parry Esther Joyce. On 5/16/18 I found more information about her on the LDS Family Search and the Find-A-Grave websites. Most of the information here cane from those websites. (David . Marshall, Sr.)

    Find-A-Grave Memorial #43928390


    Children:
    1. James Ausborne JOYCE was born on 25 Jan 1885 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 5 Mar 1936 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    2. David Fletcher JOYCE was born on 27 Feb 1887 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 4 Sep 1951 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    3. William Vester JOYCE was born on 22 Sep 1888 in North Carolina; died on 27 Nov 1973 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Woodville, Surry County, North Carolina.
    4. Sarah Etta JOYCE was born on 8 Jun 1890 in North Carolina; died on 3 May 1974 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    5. Annie Mae Hester JOYCE was born on 15 Dec 1892; died on 25 Jan 1974 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    6. Robert Walter JOYCE was born on 7 Feb 1893 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 15 Apr 1947 in Black Mountain, Buncombe County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    7. 3. Parry Esther JOYCE was born on 7 Oct 1896 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 22 Feb 1987 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    8. Rader Eva JOYCE was born on 4 Aug 1898 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 25 Apr 1980 in Winston Salem, Forsyth County, North Carolina; was buried in Winston Salem, Forsyth County, North Carolina.
    9. Elizabeth JOYCE was born on 27 Mar 1899 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 20 Jan 1947 in Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Flat Rock, Surry County, North Carolina.
    10. Hussie Marie JOYCE was born on 15 Sep 1903 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 14 Feb 1984 in Salisbury, Rowan County, North Carolina; was buried in Salisbury, Rowan County, North Carolina.
    11. Melvin Samuel JOYCE was born on 8 Feb 1906; died on 16 May 1962; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    12. John Benton JOYCE was born on 8 May 1909; died on 19 Jan 1984 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.
    13. Lillian Irene JOYCE was born on 13 Jun 1912 in North Carolina; died on 20 Jul 1974 in Winston Salem, Forsyth County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.


Generation: 4

  1. 8.  Francis Marion WRAY was born in South Carolina (son of Amos WRAY); died on 27 Jun 1977 in South Carolina; was buried in South Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 104

    Notes:

    !Wray 0002
    _________________________________________

    From: blwray@rjsonline.net - Linda Wray
    Date: Thursday, March 11, 2004 9:31 PM
    To: Charles Crabtree ; David Marshall ; Gene Wray
    Subjecy: Robert Marion Wray

    Hi,
    In looking over some of my information, I think I know who is the father of Robert Marion Wray. I believe it is Francis Marion Wray, who was a son of Amos Wray. He died June 22, 1877, and Robert Marion is listed on the 1880 census under Robert Eli Wray. Francis Marion Wray was married to Jane, who was born about 1847. They had 2 children- Ann born about 1866 and Marion born about 1869. Francis Marion Wray was a Private B in Campbell's Rifles in the twelveth SCV in the War of Northern Aggression, or more commonly known as the War Between the States. This information came from the Hart Collection at McCelvey Center in York and the Confederate State Roster SC Name Roster Volume 1. I am still looking for other information and it is possible that I am wrong. There may be more children, but I will keep trying to find more information.
    Linda

    Francis married Jane BELL. Jane was born about 1847 in South Carolina; died in South Carolina; was buried in South Carolina. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 9.  Jane BELL was born about 1847 in South Carolina; died in South Carolina; was buried in South Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 105

    Notes:

    !Wray 0002
    _________________________________________

    From: blwray@rjsonline.net - Linda Wray
    Date: Thursday, March 11, 2004 9:31 PM
    To: Charles Crabtree ; David Marshall ; Gene Wray
    Subjecy: Robert Marion Wray

    Hi,
    In looking over some of my information, I think I know who is the father of Robert Marion Wray. I believe it is Francis Marion Wray, who was a son of Amos Wray. He died June 22, 1877, and Robert Marion is listed on the 1880 census under Robert Eli Wray. Francis Marion Wray was married to Jane, who was born about 1847. They had 2 children- Ann born about 1866 and Marion born about 1869. Francis Marion Wray was a Private B in Campbell's Rifles in the twelveth SCV in the War of Northern Aggression, or more commonly known as the War Between the States. This information came from the Hart Collection at McCelvey Center in York and the Confederate State Roster SC Name Roster Volume 1. I am still looking for other information and it is possible that I am wrong. There may be more children, but I will keep trying to find more information.
    Linda

    Her given name, Jane, is not absolutely certain.

    Children:
    1. Ann WRAY was born in 1866.
    2. 4. Robert Marion Monroe WRAY was born on 4 Aug 1869 in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina; died on 25 Mar 1925 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia; was buried in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia.

  3. 10.  Malcom Camp (Mack) BYARS was buried in Blacksburg, Ckerokee County, South Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 106

    Notes:

    Called Mack.



    Subj: Wray Family Tree
    Date: 7/6/2001 10:00:43 PM Eastern Daylight Time
    From: blwray@rjsonline.net (Linda Wray) To: david@marshallgenealogy.org

    Hi, David,

    Sorry to report no progress on your Robert so far, however, I do have one thing to tell you. Going back over your information, I did recognize a name. Robert was married to Nancy Byars, daughter of M.C. Byars. My husband's grandmother on his mother's side was Mayrobie Byars, daughter of Mack Byars from Blacksburg, the same M.C. Byars- real name is Malcom Camp Byars, but was called Mack Byars. We have a copy of his death certificate. Mack Byars had a second wife, but I can't recall her name right off, but will as soon as I find my records on them. I think we have a picture with him in a group of relatives. He is buried in Mountain View Cem. in Blacksburg. Oh, by the way, Blacksburg is in Cherokee County, not York County. I am still working on your Robert and I still think your Robert and our Robert Eli are cousins. I hope to be able to get in touch with a couple of people over the weekend that may shed some light on this for us. Sorry I don't have more infromation, but I will be back in touch soon.

    Linda

    Malcom married Unicy. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  4. 11.  Unicy

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 107

    Children:
    1. 5. Nancy Stillette BYARS was born in Blacksburg, York County, South Carolina; died on 18 Aug 1959 in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia; was buried in Richmond, Henrico County, Virginia.
    2. Mattie Mae Roby BYARS was born on 3 Oct 1886 in Blacksburg, Cherokee County, South Carolina; died on 26 Jan 1937 in York County South Carolina; was buried on 27 Jan 1938 in Smyrna, York County, South Carolina.

  5. 12.  William Snider JOYCE was born on 11 Jun 1836 in North Carolina (son of William JOYCE and Nancy SIMMONS); died on 11 Mar 1916 in Brim, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Albion, Surry County, North Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 108

    Notes:

    Wray 0007

    He is buried in the Albion Community Church Cemetery.

    Find A Grave Memorial

    https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/62430426/william-snider-joyce


    William married Ruth Jane SLATE. Ruth (daughter of Peterson James SLATE and Palinia SHELTON) was born on 10 Jul 1840 in Stokes County, North Carolina; died on 30 Nov 1920 in Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Albion, Surry County, North Carolina. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  6. 13.  Ruth Jane SLATE was born on 10 Jul 1840 in Stokes County, North Carolina (daughter of Peterson James SLATE and Palinia SHELTON); died on 30 Nov 1920 in Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Albion, Surry County, North Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 109

    Notes:

    Wray 0007

    She is buried in the Albion Community Church Cemetery

    Find A Grave Memorial

    https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/60090169/ruth-jane-joyce


    Children:
    1. Abraham Lincoln JOYCE was born on 13 Dec 1862; died on 4 Apr 1909; was buried in Albion, Surry County, North Carolina.
    2. Nancy Jane JOYCE was born on 6 Jul 1862 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 2 Nov 1916 in Pilot Mountain, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Hills Grove, Surry County, North Carolina.
    3. 6. Samuel J. JOYCE was born on 30 Aug 1865 in Stokes County, North Carolina; died on 6 Jul 1927 in Morganton, Burke County, North Carolina; was buried in Flat Rock, Surry County, North Carolina.
    4. Melissie JOYCE was born on 4 Jul 1874 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 1 Sep 1962 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Albion, Surry County, North Carolina.
    5. Emily Lee JOYCE was born on 26 Aug 1880 in Surry County, North Carolina; died on 17 May 1964 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Albion, Surry County, North Carolina.

  7. 14.  Samuel HOOKER was born on 21 Jun 1838; died on 7 Mar 1912; was buried in Westfield, North Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 110

    Notes:

    !Wray 0007 - Buried in Albian Church Cemetary.

    Samuel married Fanny NEWMAN. Fanny was born in 1837; died in 1921; was buried in Westfield, North Carolina. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  8. 15.  Fanny NEWMAN was born in 1837; died in 1921; was buried in Westfield, North Carolina.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • Reference Number: 111

    Notes:

    !Wray 0007 - Buried in Albian Church Cemetary.

    Children:
    1. 7. Emma HOOKER was born on 21 Mar 1868 in Patrick County, Virginia; died on 16 Aug 1931 in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina; was buried in Mount Airy, Surry County, North Carolina.